We often think of healthy eating as an all or none situation. Many of us feel that in order to eat healthily we have to eat a salad every day and avoid all treats. When we don鈥檛 accomplish that, we feel guilty. I鈥檇 like to suggest we re-think that.

I was recently at a friend鈥檚 home celebrating her birthday.  Someone at the party mentioned they were trying to eat healthy but they had failed that day because of the cake, chips and drinks and that got me thinking. Healthy eating is much more than eating only nutritious food.

Enjoying treats on special occasions, eating a couple pieces of chocolate after a meal or going out for a burger and fries once in a while can all be part of healthy eating.

Having treats are OK as long as we focus on eating fruits and vegetables, whole grains, dairy, plant based proteins like lentils, seeds and nuts most of the time.

Having a good relationship with food and enjoying all foods, even those not-so-nutritious foods, can set us up for a lifetime of healthy eating. This mindset allows us to not feel guilty when eating treats and it can keep us on track with healthy eating.

We are bombarded by so many messages on social media about what foods to eat for certain health benefits.

The truth is all food provides health benefits. The piece of cake that I ate at the birthday celebration was good for my sense of well-being and social connectedness.

I enjoyed eating that small piece of cake with friends as we talked, laughed and enjoyed each other鈥檚 company. And of course that chocolate cheesecake tasted really good too鈥攊t was the real deal鈥攎ade with real cheese and real chocolate.

Many desserts and recipes out there use alternative ingredients to make them seem healthier, but the reality is that date-loaded, cashew cream-filled, carob-soaked cake is really not any healthier than the real deal.

Sometimes, we all need a reminder of what healthy eating really is.

Registered dietitians are able to help by working with you to determine what works best for you. And, yes, that might include having a small treat every day.

Registered dietitians take a holistic approach, looking at all aspects of your life, to help you to make healthy lifestyle changes.

To speak to a registered dietitian, you can call HealthLinks BC at 811.