The second woman to publicly accuse Alice Munro鈥檚 late husband of targeting her sexually when she was a child says she hopes her story will encourage parents to believe their children.

Jane Morrey was nine years old when she says Gerald Fremlin exposed himself to her while he was staying at her family鈥檚 Toronto home, several years before he married Munro. Fifty-five years later, she was inspired to speak publicly about it for the first time after learning that Fremlin had later sexually abused one of Munro鈥檚 daughters, Andrea Robin Skinner, when she, too, was nine.

Morrey, 64, says her experience was profoundly different from Skinner鈥檚. Last month, Skinner described in an essay for the Toronto Star how for years after Fremlin assaulted her, she was sent back to her mother鈥檚 home every summer and continued to be abused by him. Her mother鈥檚 decision to stay with Fremlin after learning of the sexual abuse has tarnished the legacy of one of Canada鈥檚 most celebrated authors. Munro died in May, aged 92.

When Fremlin targeted Morrey, she said, her mother threw him out of the house immediately, and Morrey never saw him again until she was an adult. Looking back now, she said she doesn鈥檛 feel 鈥減articularly traumatized鈥� by the incident.

鈥淚 never grew up feeling like I did something wrong, ever,鈥� she said in a phone interview on Monday. 鈥淚 felt like I was completely vindicated, because I was believed, instantly.鈥�

Morrey, who first told her story to the Toronto Star, hopes her decision to speak out will help other parents understand how important it is to act decisively. 鈥淎side from Alice Munro鈥檚 fame, aside from everything, if something happens and your child tells you, then believe them and act accordingly,鈥� she said.

It was only after Skinner鈥檚 essay was published that it became known Fremlin, who died in 2013 at the age of 88, had pleaded guilty in 2005 to indecently assaulting his stepdaughter.

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Fremlin was a close family friend of Morrey鈥檚 parents. They had attended the University of Western Ontario together, along with Alice and Jim Munro, who would become the author鈥檚 first husband and the father of her three daughters, including Andrea.

Morrey鈥檚 older sister, Marianne Webb, said Fremlin visited their family often, and she doesn鈥檛 remember a time when he wasn鈥檛 friends with her parents. She said he never acted inappropriately toward her, and she remembers being 鈥渒ind of jealous鈥� that he would send her little sister postcards from his travels around the world. Now, she sees the behaviour as 鈥渟ubtle grooming.鈥�

Morrey, who is seven years younger than Webb, said she loved getting postcards, gifts and attention from Fremlin and saw him as something of an uncle.

Then, when Fremlin was visiting in 1969, nine-year-old Morrey went into his room one morning to ask what he wanted for breakfast. She said he threw his blanket off and exposed himself to her. Shocked, she left the room and began making oatmeal.

She said Fremlin then followed her to the kitchen and told her, 鈥淚 shouldn鈥檛 have flashed my c鈥攌 at you.鈥�

鈥淚鈥檇 never heard adults talk that way or use that kind of word,鈥� she said. 鈥淢y parents were very clinical about stuff.鈥�

But Fremlin went on, she remembers. 鈥淭hen he said, 鈥極K, so you got to see me. Maybe you鈥檇 like to show me yours.鈥欌��

At that point, Morrey said, she left the room and woke up her mother to tell her what had happened. 鈥淢y mother went berserk when I told her,鈥� she said, and immediately got the girls to leave the house. Webb said they waited at the end of the street until they saw Fremlin鈥檚 car drive off.

When they got back, Morrey said, her parents told her Fremlin was never coming back to the house. After that, 鈥渢hey just didn鈥檛 speak of it again,鈥� she said.

Morrey didn鈥檛 see Fremlin again until nearly two decades later, at a 1986 launch for one of Munro鈥檚 books. Munro and Fremlin had married 10 years earlier. 鈥淚 went up to him and I said, 鈥榊ou probably don鈥檛 recognize me but I鈥檓 Jane Webb,鈥� and he just looked terrified,鈥� she said.

She didn鈥檛 confront him about the incident from her childhood, but she wanted to scare him. 鈥淗e scared me when I was little and I wanted to look him in the eye and watch him squirm. I wanted him to worry about what I might do or say,鈥� she said in an email. 鈥淚 guess I wanted to show him that he wasn鈥檛 the only person with power.鈥�

Morrey has not spoken with Skinner, who was assaulted by Fremlin in 1976, several years after Morrey says he targeted her. But Morrey said she always wondered whether Fremlin had other victims, and whether anything might have happened with any of Munro鈥檚 daughters. 鈥淚t was always kind of in the back of my mind, but I never really thought about it very much at all until (Skinner鈥檚) article,鈥� she said.

Now, she hopes other potential victims will feel safe enough to come forward. 鈥淎s victims, there鈥檚 no shame in it,鈥� she said.

Years after the incident, when Morrey was an adult, her mother struck up a new friendship with Fremlin. At that point, she said, her relationship with her mother was strained and she never confronted her about the friendship, which was short-lived. Webb also suspects their father quietly maintained a friendship with Munro鈥檚 husband. Both her parents have since died.

鈥淭he real enigma was how my parents recognized that he was a predator who needed to be kept away from their daughter and yet continued to enjoy his friendship,鈥� Morrey said by email. 鈥淗ow he found a wife and at least two friends who could knowingly ignore his abhorrent and criminal behaviour is truly mind-boggling.鈥�

Ultimately, though, she鈥檚 grateful to her mother for doing 鈥渢he right thing in the moment,鈥� especially when she contrasts her experience with Skinner鈥檚.

鈥淭hat was probably the most important thing she ever did for me,鈥� she said. 鈥淭he confidence that it gives you in being believed is so important.鈥�

Maura Forrest, The Canadian Press