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How to balance the gory and the family-friendly in your Halloween fun

Tips and trends as you prepare to get into the sppoky season spirit
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This image released by Anthropology shows and Francesca Kaye鈥檚 Halloween Magic Owl Lantern. (Anthropologie via AP)

For some people, the scarier the better when it comes to Halloween decorations. A zombie girl with glowing eyes who rips the head off her teddy bear? OK. A 6-foot-tall, chainsaw-wielding hulk who emits bloodcurdling screams and buzzing? Trick or treat!

Decorating with scary stuff can be part of the fun.

But other people, including those with little kids, find the aesthetic disturbing, and prefer their Halloween without the gore.

鈥淚 want to preserve my little ones鈥 innocence as long as possible, and the creepy, mischievous, evil side of Halloween brings up topics I don鈥檛 want my child to know about until they鈥檙e old enough to understand it鈥檚 fake,鈥 says Jamie Morrissey, who has three children under 3 in suburban New York.

For those after a more dialed-down but still spooky and dramatic look, there are plenty of decorations and themes.

Some play off of old science and wizardry, with celestial illustrations and apothecary elements. Some take a playfully gothic turn. There鈥檚 the traditional orange-and-black color scheme, but no reason to stick only to that.

(Note: As for fake cobwebs and dangling lights, wildlife experts urge people not to put them up. Animals can get in them, leading to injury or death.)

BASIC BLACK. OR A HALLOWEEN RAINBOW

Jessica Dodell-Feder, HGTV Magazine鈥檚 executive editor, bleeds the color from her decorations.

鈥淚 love keeping everything black and white, then using natural elements that have a little bit of a creepy factor like bats, snakes, bugs or Venus fly traps,鈥 she says. 鈥淭hink black-painted branches sticking out of an urn; framed faux moth specimens; black-painted faux snakes 鈥榗rawling鈥 across the center of a table like a runner.鈥

At the other end of the spectrum, if you want to take your Halloween a little bit 鈥90s, a little bit , then professional crafter of Austin, Texas, has some zingy, rainbow-hued, Halloween-themed ideas at her site, akailochiclife. She offers garlands of multicolored pumpkins or phrases, like 鈥淗ocus Pocus鈥 or 鈥淚 Put a Spell on You.鈥 She has instructions for spatter-painting faux pumpkins in day-glo colors.

Another craft idea that kids and adults can do together:

Submerge a few white tapers in warm water until they鈥檙e soft enough to bend into curvy shapes. Then with a permanent marker add facial features. Once they鈥檝e cooled and hardened again, you鈥檝e got some candle ghosts for the table. There鈥檚 a DIY video on Whitten鈥檚 blog.

Betsy Cribb Watson, Southern Living鈥檚 senior homes and features editor, favors fall colors.

鈥淚鈥檓 not huge on Halloween, so I love leaning into the season鈥檚 abundance of natural colors instead: sage greens, burnt oranges, golden yellows and chocolate browns,鈥 she says.

鈥淧lus, when you skip the zombies in favor of fall color, you can enjoy your decorations from the start of the season through Thanksgiving.鈥

GHOSTS, JACK-O鈥-LANTERNS AND OTHER STALWARTS

But Watson acknowledges it鈥檚 no fun to be a Halloween Scrooge, either.

She finds the handmade ghosts from Mollie Jenkins Pottery 鈥渏ust the right mix of sweet and spooky.鈥

is a Columbus, Georgia, ceramic artist who found herself with a little extra white clay one fall semester while pursuing her B.F.A. at Auburn University.

鈥淢y mom鈥檚 always loved decorating for the holidays, and growing up we had spooky Halloween candlesticks along with big terracotta jack-o鈥-lanterns. I took a spin off of those, creating my whimsical ghost,鈥 she said.

Her little specters have developed a following, and sell out every year on her site.

DECORATING FOR A PARTY

Inviting some friends over for a spooky soiree?

For a Hogwarts feel, hang some of battery-operated 鈥渇loating candles鈥 over a party table or entry. The retailer also has stacked black pumpkin lights with cat faces, and glittery black twig trees.

got a twiggy, matte-black wreath for a mantel or door. Or create a modern Halloween village with a few of their matte-black haunted houses.

Lauren McIntosh, an artist in Berkeley, California, has created a collection of glassware and napkins for with illustrations including a fortune-teller鈥檚 palm, ravens, night-blooming flowers, and mystical moon and star patterns. Also for London ceramicist has an endearing array of bats, cats, owls and ravens on trays, mugs, lanterns and a candelabra.

Dodell-Felder shares a party idea connected to the movie 鈥淏eetlejuice,鈥 which gets a new installment as early as next year.

鈥淚鈥檓 a huge fan of Tim Burton, and recently ended up purely by accident at a Beetlejuice-themed bar. It had black-and-white striped d茅cor with neon green elements. The drinks were served on dry ice, and they had old-timey portraits on the walls. You couldn鈥檛 look away!鈥 she says.

For 鈥渁n elevated Halloween party,鈥 The Spruce鈥檚 editorial and strategy director, Caroline Utz, suggests setting up a tablescape with luxe textures like velvet, and adding orange, purple and green candlesticks in different shapes and sizes. Sculptured Greek or Roman busts might add a 鈥淣ight at the Museum鈥 vibe.

CREATIVE BUT GENTLE

In San Francisco, Emily Reaman works in interior design, and she鈥檚 also got a preschooler. While he loves some 鈥渟pooky鈥 things, she鈥檚 careful about her decorating.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 have cobwebs or skeletons hanging by my front door,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut I do add lights to the trees, and my son and I decorate gourds with paint and glitter that we keep out during Halloween, then use on the Thanksgiving table.鈥

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