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PAMPER, PAMPER, PAMPER

There鈥檚 a zillion ways to pamper mom. There鈥檚 breakfast in bed, of course, and homemade coupon books offering to do some of her least favorite chores, or joining her on something she loves but you don鈥檛. If you鈥檙e looking for a self-care something, is pricy but there鈥檚 little it can鈥檛 do. There are styler-dryer Dyson Airwrap sets for straight to wavy, and curly to coily hair. All avoid extreme heat. So many attachments. So little time. $599.99. Widely available.

SERVE UP SOME SERVICE

Still in the pamper mom search? Gift cards for mani-pedis, a spa day or a spa weekend may be greatly appreciated. How about cleaning out the garage or pantry without complaint? Not happening? Re-pot some plants, clean up the garden or put in a bunch of new annuals to add color. Try a gift card for car detailing, and an offer to go get it done so she doesn鈥檛 have to. Better yet, kids, clean mom鈥檚 car inside and out for free. Do a good job.

SPEAKING OF GARDENS

Consider a swing through a garden center or three so mom can pick out whatever she wants. Again, with no grumbling. Alternatively, go yourself and bring home flats full of her favorites. Offer to do her indoor chores for a week so she can spend more time in the garden. Gift her some new outdoor containers or fancy indoor pots.

FOR OUTDOORSY, ACTIVE MOM

Whether mom is a runner, hiker or camper, think gear. There鈥檚 so much tech in gear and she may not be completely up to date. If that鈥檚 not important, there鈥檚 plenty of just regular stuff, too. Perhaps a $44.95. Check out the $140. A fancy tent or camp stove, perhaps. High performance shorts and matching tops. A new bicycle? The possibilities are endless.

FOR THE COFFEE MOM

Bags of her favorite beans, or anything coffee-related. Coffee pods, a Starbucks card, a new coffee maker, funny coffee-themed signs for the kitchen, a homemade coffee cake to go with mom鈥檚 cup of Joe. Have at it. You could even turn her on to some new beans. Artisanal java is everywhere.

LET HER CLAIM THE DAY

Mother鈥檚 Day is usually about togetherness. What if mom wants to go it alone? Easier said than done for some families. If doable, send her somewhere on the actual day, rather than a future one, where for 24 hours her every need and desire will be anticipate and met. Massage, delicious food, alone time in a calming, private outdoor spot by a creek. No one asking her for a single thing. A slice of heaven.

FLY IN SOME LOVED ONES

Sometimes, new moms just want their own moms. That鈥檚 not always possible, considering distance and cost. Splurge! Especially if mom is marking her first postpartum Mother鈥檚 Day. Fly in her mom if you have to. Plan a nice brunch, either at home or at a restaurant, followed by an afternoon at a botanical garden or a park. Are there grandkids? Daughters who are pregnant or with new babies? Make it happen that everybody is together. It鈥檚 what memories are made of.

FEED A PASSION, ENHANCE A HOBBY

Does mom collect a specific kind of crystal, china, anything else? You could pick up a piece or come up with a new or expanded display scheme. See if there鈥檚 a museum tie-in, either locally or on a trip, that you could take her to. Does the cherished collected thing inspire or books of history? Is she passionate about a specific TV show or Merch is everything. How about a new yoga mat?

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