At his family home in Surrey, Travis Selje is everywhere, yet nowhere.

Reminders of a teenager taken too soon are visible immediately, upon entry at the front door.

Framed soccer and baseball jerseys line the wall up the stairs leading to Travis鈥� bedroom, virtually untouched since that fateful evening two years ago Friday (May 3).

A blue hoodie of his also rests untouched on a newel post where he left it, at the top of the stairs outside his trophy-filled room. On an opposite wall, a framed collection of photos includes images of Travis in every grade through school, with a blank space for the Grade 12 year he never experienced.

Outside, there鈥檚 a soccer net and artificial turf he never got to use.

鈥淭hat was for him to train on, and that net, we assembled that the day before he died,鈥� lamented his father, Miki.

鈥淗e wanted it, so we ordered it, put it together on the Tuesday, and on Wednesday he was dead. And I can鈥檛 take it down.鈥�

At around 9 p.m. on May 3, 2017, Travis Malcolm Selje 鈥� pronounced SELL-yay 鈥搘as on his way home from a soccer practice when a speeding Cadillac slammed into his Honda Prelude, which was stopped at a red light, heading east.

The 17-year-old, a high-level athlete and straight-A student, succumbed to his massive injuries at Royal Columbian Hospital two days later.

Last October, Surrey resident Rituraj Kaur Grewal, 24, was charged in connection with the crash, her next day in court to come next year.

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鈥淭here鈥檚 no excuse,鈥� Miki said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 like pulling a trigger of a gun, as far as I鈥檓 concerned.鈥�

鈥淚t鈥檚 why we don鈥檛 call it an accident, we call it a crime,鈥� added Travis鈥� mother, Carola.

Near the site of the crash, on the southwest corner of 64th Avenue and 176th Street, a roadside memorial includes a white metal cross built by Miki, a machinist by trade.

鈥淭hat was the hardest thing I ever did,鈥� he said in a quavering voice while seated on his home鈥檚 cozy backyard patio, which the family had built partly as a safe haven for Travis and his older sister, Sara, to socialize with friends.

On a sunny morning last week, the heartbroken Selje family 鈥� Miki, Carola and their daughter Sara, along with Miki鈥檚 brother Markus and family friend Angie Suomi 鈥� gathered there to speak to a reporter for the first time since Travis鈥� death, to talk about and also about a foundation launched in his name.

They also shared fond memories about Travis, the ultra-competitive athlete and neat-freak student who somehow found time to hold down a pair of part-time jobs 鈥� at the Fast Track go-kart place in Langley and also at the Ace Hardware store on Cloverdale鈥檚 main drag, not far from the home Travis had known since birth.

Carola remembers her son as a hard-working boy who excelled at soccer and pretty much everything else he set his mind to, including the game of baseball. One day, at the age of 12, Travis had to choose between the two sports when operators of the Vancouver Whitecaps鈥� youth program came calling.

鈥淗e decided with a heavy heart to focus on soccer,鈥� Carola remembers. 鈥淗e tried to play baseball for another year after that, but it didn鈥檛 quite work, just not enough time.鈥�

For his Grade 10 year, Travis commuted daily to Burnaby Central Secondary for classes with the other young Whitecaps prospects.

鈥淓very morning he left at 5:30 and didn鈥檛 get home until 7, and he kept straight-As and never complained once,鈥� Miki said.

鈥淔or a 15-year-old kid, that鈥檚 pretty good.鈥�

Four years into it, with injuries mounting and change in the air, Travis left the Whitecaps program to return to Lord Tweedsmuir Secondary, much closer to home.

At age 16, he was also again positioned as centre-back defender with Surrey United, the club where he began playing the game as a five-year-old, in 2005.

鈥淗e was just excelling, and loved it,鈥� Carola recalled. 鈥淪o this was in Grade 11, when universities had approached him already, about going to this place or that place, so he said he would make his decision after playing in the Canada Games that August, with Team BC.

鈥淲e were talking about it, all three of us,鈥� she said, gesturing toward her husband, her eyes dewy.

鈥淗e never got to make the decision.鈥�

Carola stopped talking, for a brief moment of silence in the conversation.

In the distance, a siren.

鈥淒o you hear that?鈥� she asked. 鈥淵ou probably don鈥檛 hear those sirens right now,鈥� she continued, 鈥渂ut you have no idea what we鈥檙e going through. I hear them and I鈥檓 right back there, on that day it happened. I hear them every day.鈥�

Cigarette in hand, Miki nodded in agreement.

鈥淚 even asked the police to stop using their sirens around here, because I just can鈥檛 hear them,鈥� he said. 鈥淚 know they can鈥檛 do that, but it just drives me nuts.鈥�

Back to the subject of Travis and soccer, his parents say he did not see himself playing pro.

鈥淗e didn鈥檛 talk about it, no,鈥� Miki related. 鈥淎nd I think he was a better baseball player than a soccer player, but soccer was a better opportunity at the time, and for me it was a way for him to get into scholarships, an education, and he knew education came first, too. Soccer was a way for him to get that.鈥�

Carola said Travis was working hard to graduate several months early, in January of 2018.

鈥淲e didn鈥檛 know which university he鈥檇 go to,鈥� she said, 鈥渂ut we wanted to keep him in Canada, and maybe that was going to be back east somewhere.鈥�

He wanted to be in business, or accounting.

鈥淗e loved money,鈥� Sara added with a smile. 鈥淗e had options. He was really smart.鈥�

With the help of Suomi and others, the local soccer community will come together on June 2 for the inaugural TS3 Inspires tournament, created as a fun-filled day for preteen players on 80 teams to celebrate Travis鈥� life, in a six-on-six format.

Naturally, the games will be played at Cloverdale Athletic Park, the place where Travis spent his final hour conscious.

鈥淪urrey United approached us that they wanted to do a tournament in Travis鈥� name, and we never thought something like that would happen, and so fast,鈥� Carola explained. 鈥淪o they took it in their own hands, with people鈥檚 help 鈥� so many volunteers and great people, and the community just wants to help and contribute and honour Travis, and that is so touching.

鈥淔rom the day this happened,鈥� she added, 鈥渨e鈥檝e had overwhelming support from people, some we didn鈥檛 even know, with flowers and cards, letters. We want to thank everyone.鈥� We didn鈥檛 even know how to get through a day, the next minute, nothing, without our friends.鈥�

PHOTO: Framed photos of Travis Selje and other items fill the top of a dresser in his bedroom. (Photo: Tom Zillich)

includes several tributes to Travis written by former coaches and others who remember watching him play soccer, including Jeff Clarke, Surrey United鈥檚 technical director.

鈥淗e was a champion and true competitor and a kid that truly loved every second of his sports experiences,鈥� Clarke wrote. 鈥淪urrey United SC celebrated all of his successes in his teenage years with Whitecaps FC and were proud to see him return to SUSC at U17. In the short period that he returned to the club before his tragic passing, Travis inspired his 2000 (birth year) teammates and many of the young players that emulated him in the club. He also set a standard of being a great teammate and competitor that will influence SUSC teams and players positively for years to come.鈥�

The website also includes video of Travis in action on the soccer pitch.

鈥淎 player he had some good battles with, his dad always shot video of the games, of his son playing 鈥� every single game,鈥� Miki explained. 鈥淭hey鈥檙e from Coquitlam, and he put that together and gave it to me. He went though every video he had and picked out highlights of Travis playing.鈥�

With Surrey United鈥檚 BCSPL team in his final season, Travis wore #3, so the TS3 Inspires tournament name is combination of his initials and his jersey number.

Travis was born on March 5, 2000, and his jersey with the Whitecaps youth program was #35, a representation of his birth month and day. That Whitecaps jersey number, with the word 鈥淪elje鈥� above it, is tattooed on Miki鈥檚 back, life-sized and in the same font.

Fighting tears while standing outside his son鈥檚 bedroom, Miki pulled up his shirt to reveal the breathtaking artwork.

鈥淥n jersey day or whatever, people ask where mine is. Well, it鈥檚 always with me, right there on my back.鈥�

tom.zillich@surreynowleader.com
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